Sublimation

The Sixth Bird

What is dead: seagull
What is dying: seagull

Evening. My husband and I walk south over wet sand at Cannon Beach, roughly parallel to the ever-shifting waterline. We come across a dead seagull. Another. Another. A carcass every few hundred feet. Each body we come upon is more recently dead than the one before—more in tact, more body-like, more recognizably bird.

We pause at the fifth carcass. It is clearly only hours dead, if that. Thirteen seagulls surround the body. They systematically strip it of flesh.

It seems at first like a random attack but is in fact an organized effort. At any given time, three gulls have the dead bird in their beaks, one at the neck, two clasping either leg. The three pull in unison, stretching the still-pliant body into an expanding triangle until chunks of feathers and flesh tear away. The body breakers hop off to devour their share as three gulls from the larger group move in to perform roughly the same maneuvers as the last.

What is dead: seagull
What is dying: seagull

“Sky burial, this is a kind of sky burial,” I think. The flightless, the dead, being consumed by the living. The dead weighing down the living. The dead being carried off in so many ever-expanding stomachs.

What is dead: seagull
What is dying: seagull

Here and there, clumps of feathers stick out of the sand: What is left over after the harvest cannot be called bodies, can it. Cannot be called flight, since it takes more than feathers to fly. Half-buried dirty broken ornaments these feathers are, nothing more.

The sixth bird is not yet dead. It sits facing the wind. It does not move, except to blink, shiver. Between the wind and the cold, it has been a hard day here for gulls. A dog named Lana tries to attack the dying bird. Lana’s owner pulls her away. Wind blows sheets of dry sand just over wet sand. A pile of sand accumulates in front of the dying bird’s body. Soon the bird is caked in sand, most of its feathers no longer visible. It continues to blink.

I sit alongside until dark. My husband stands behind me. A woman pauses, looks at the bird, says “Circle of life” before moving on. I pick up a small stone near the bird, slip it in my pocket, wish the bird well. We make our way back down the beach, toward the dead, deader.

I wonder if the gulls will wait or begin eating the sixth bird while it is still alive. They gather around the dying gull as we move away.

What is dead: seagull
What is dying: seagull

Flight

Because during the poetry class I was just in, a moth flitted across the room. Scratch that. Shot across the room with a speed and straight-line purpose seldom seen in moths, even those under round-the-clock observation. The moth went right into my left eye. The instructor was trying to keep things on task as I, an impacted vessel, held my hand to my face and listed a bit in the direction of my injury.

I believe all the voices in my head are my mother. My father has not once spoken to me since his death.

Nothing dramatic, not like the time a gnat flew into my right eye at full force over at Yellowstone when all I wanted was to relaxedly take in a little scenery. I was convinced the gnat had grown a stinger for the sole purpose of injecting me on the cornea. It had not in fact stung me, but came as close to the sensation of stinging as anything without a stinger could, so to this day I maintain that it stung. I screamed, jumped about and generally carried on.

Let’s face it. I make people uncomfortable. Even when I’m not screaming, jumping about and generally carrying on. Add to this winged creatures coming at my eyes, and (I can only envision) the feeling of uncomfortable-ness I cause in others would be increased, though by what positive exponent remains to be documented. If you are interested in that degree of specificity, further experiments and data analyses will be necessary, and I’m not really down with all that, being, as I happen to be, so uncomfortable both with: 1. making people any more uncomfortable than I usually do, and 2. having things with wings deliberately sent into my eye. I am a human, after all. And these are only moths and such. I am not earth, and they are not bombs. Let’s not forget these vital distinctions.

I want also to touch on this: Things without wings going into my eye I am not fond of either. Grit, pencil shavings, salt, etc. have all made their way in at one time or another. I can only imagine what’s accumulated behind my retinae. Some things might not dissolve and instead be siphoned up through my optic nerve. Especially et cetera. I bet et cetera has a long half-life. Can you imagine how long the list would be if we detailed everything et cetera houses? Set end to end, et cetera ‘s contents would entirely wrap each and every one of our bodies, like a good bandaging job for an everywhere injury. Imagine how et cetera weighs, what we’ve made it take on, you and I. It must surely feel like a moth is always in etc’s eye. Then, to add insult to injury, we abbreviate it. How etc. aches to be longer. For recognition of all we’ve made it become. Et cetera is a moth with its wings pulled off, a thing whose shadowy undertow has been erased.

But I risk losing my point if I start talking about anything other than today and this moth. So let’s stick with the moth for now. Actually, I feel I have exhausted the subject. I wouldn’t want to write past my ending. I could go into how I had to excuse myself from the class and make my way to the restroom, how the instructor did not acknowledge what was up with my eye and the whole leaning-slightly business, or how perhaps he did acknowledge it because I do seem to recall a disembodied voice saying “I saw that” after I finally worked up the courage to say, “A moth just flew into my eye. I am hurt.”

However, I couldn’t tell you with certainty if the person who replied was the instructor, a male student, or some voice of recognition in my head. The last notion really isn’t that absurd, except that studies show almost all imagined voices are female, not male. Something about the cadence and lilt women lend to the words they/we speak. (Sorry for the slip. I sometimes forget I am a woman when I speak of women. I wonder if “a moth” ever forgets it is “moth” and what it thinks it is instead, or if it ever feels it is nothing. If I were a moth, which I am not, I believe I would lapse into thinking I was all wing. Single wing like a small fan in nothing’s hand.)

But back to voices. I believe all the voices in my head are my mother. My father has not once spoken to me since his death. I do not love him less for it.

I almost forgot to mention how I could mention why I didn’t go back to the class. It wasn’t my hurt eye, although my eye hurt. It was fear. Or poetry. In that room, there was no air for poetry, not for me. My way of writing it. I should mention this was all playing out inside me, again no fault of the class or instructor. In fact nobody saw my discomfort, the air being pushed out of my lungs one breath at a time, less air coming back with each inhalation, a kind of measured dirge toward suffocation.

The moth knew this was happening, something close to panic but not quite panic. It doesn’t surprise me the moth would recognize panic in the making, given the tizzy of a short moth-life. Poetry was unsafe for me in that moment, and the moth knew it. Hence the speed. The direction. Self-sacrificing it went into me, my light, the window of my lighthouse, to protect me. It’s the only logical explanation.

A woman just slipped into the seat across from me in the computer lab where I’ve set up camp to write this. I told her my story. She listened. She said to take a spoon, fill it with water, and lower my eye into it. She, too, is a moth. Another kind of savior.

I could keep going and going, like a winged thing fighting its way to its destination: final, temporary or insulary. But I think I will stop with the sentence, “So let’s stick with the moth for now.” That seems a proper ending. But I will add this: My only regret is not having been considerate enough to make sure the moth was OK before running out of the room. We should treat those who save us with more kindness.

The Human Sidewalk Hotdog

The human sidewalk hotdog is really excited today, jumping up and down so much his loosely attached fabric smile is flopping about on his meat face. His eyes remain hollow and unconvincing. The two stripes of mustard down his belly also unconvincing. Sometimes the human sidewalk hotdog puts one or both of his arms inside his outfit and the outfit begins to undulate. This can go on for prolonged periods. This of course leads one to wonder what he’s doing in there, if he’s making adjustments to his own hot dog, and if anyone else has to wear that getup after him.

If I had four arms and two brains, I would get a lot more done.

Lilting is not something that comes naturally to me.

Today the human sidewalk hotdog is spazzing out. Kicking, screaming, flailing about doing something sort of like jumping jacks, although he is rather constrained by his hotdog outfit. The human sidewalk hotdog is so hot he’s bound to melt the mustard right off his meaty self. He’s an amazing sight to behold. Oh, he’s lying down on the ground! He’s back up! He’s down again! I think he’s trying to breakdance!

The human sidewalk hotdog is boring today. His suit isn’t on all the way and I think it’s inside out. He’s not even moving or holding his sign. I know it is hot out, but that is no excuse for the human sidewalk hotdog to stand still, halfway out of his meat-bun casing. Dance, hotdog, dance! Oh, my mistake. That is just a regular human sidewalk person with his clothes half on and half off. My bad. Sorry hotdog.

What I want everyone to know: Any negative reaction you may have upon meeting me is entirely temporary and will not likely cause any long-term adverse effects. If you do have long-term adverse effects you feel are associated with me, please see your primary care physician. Be sure to mention your exposure to me, duration and frequency of exposure, and cumulative dosage. So far, there have only been five or so documented cases of irreparable damage. There is as of yet no cure. Palliative care is indicated.

To Sleep, Perchance to Dream

Yesterday Jon and I stood on a pier at Juanita Beach Park for a long, long time, waiting for the beavers to return to their den. We’d seen one of them bobbing along the far edge of the water, its wet furry head above, then below, then above, then below the surface. With only the head intermittently in sight, I had to imagine the rest of the creature, its chunky body and short legs, I supposed, paddling awkwardly beneath.

Sometimes the head would come up under a lily pad, which would become an impromptu hat for a foot or two before the plant’s tether would pull the leaf away and the wet furry head would again be revealed.

This is how night should come, I thought.

Jon asked if I was ready to leave yet. He becomes impatient with nature just as nature is about to reveal something to or about him. He likes to move briskly through landscapes because that keeps him in his safe, usual thoughts. Stopping poses a risk because that is when nature can change a person.

But stopping is important. We need to allow ourselves to let nature have a say in how we think about and move through the world. Just ask William Stafford, who urges us to let your whole self drift down like a breath and learn / its way down through the trees … Stand here till all that / you were can wander away and come back slowly, / carrying a strange new flavor into your life.

The beaver was nowhere in sight but we located a mother duck with six ducklings beneath her. She looked like an upside-down Easter basket with all its goodies underneath. She had found a nice spot to camp out for the night and was drifting in and out of sleep, opening her eyes whenever the grass moved, a small bird came near, or a firecracker was set off. I wondered then to what degree wildlife across the United States collectively worries on the Fourth of July. It must sound like the end of the world. Or hunting season.

Jon asked several more times if I was ready. “You ready yet, Bud? Ready now?”

This is how night should come, I thought again. It should come slowly over the trees, above the grasses. It should settle on the water just like this. It should guide the beavers gently and slowly through the water until they find themselves at the worn pathway leading to their den, where they pull themselves onto the mud and wriggle across decaying, tamped foliage, making the final turn into their home and out of our sight.

Yes, it should come just like this.

Last night is the first time in weeks I have not felt anxious and panicky as soon as the sun goes down. Since my test results, I have been so worried about what the diagnosis will be, what comes next and how my life could be severely altered or truncated. As soon as the light begins to fade, my heart rate and blood pressure have begun to rise. I have spent every night in a body that hums with fear. Fear has become its own composition with no end, no rests, no shifts in pitch or volume. Just its continual drone, its dissonant multi-tonal vibration.

But last night, night seemed natural. I was not afraid. I did not kick and scream my way into sleep or try to fight my way out of it once I was there. Last night I was a beaver. I was grass. I was water. I was that whole gloppy corner of the world taking up the darkness and whispering, Yes, yes.

On Hearing Cicadas in the Hail

We’re having another winter storm in Seattle. All day, I’ve watched the wind manhandle the trees in my neighborhood. Our power has flickered repeatedly, as if it’s flirting with the notion of going out entirely. Now hail is clinking (make that clanking, since the hail is getting larger) against our home’s gutters and windows. I just moved my car to the bottom of our hill, which means I should at least have a shot at making it to the GRE testing center tomorrow morning, when the weather is supposed to be even worse than it is now.

When I got out of my car after safely nestling it on a side street at the foot of the hill, I noticed a familiar sound. At first, I thought it was cicadas, but there aren’t any cicadas here. Even if there were, they wouldn’t be out this time of year. Still, the momentary misimpression of hearing them stirred something in me—a longing for the Midwest, for late-night walks down quaint, flat streets, the bark of the oaks and elms and maples and magnolias covered with them. The surround-sound of them above us, beside us, near and far. Every morning, the rattling was gone. Then at dusk, they’d start up with their modulated drone, vibrating their tymbals and turning their bodies into diminutive chambers of sound.

But I digress. The sound, as I was saying, wasn’t cicadas. It was the hail. I’m not sure how hail created that kind of din, but it did. While I walked back up the hill to my house, shielded from the hail by my umbrella, I felt happy as I thought about the joy of plucking abandoned cicada exoskeletons from branches and tree trunks, something I relished as a child in Oklahoma and as an adult in Kansas City. (Aaah, the wonder of their split-open backs, banded abdomens and finely haired bodies. Their alien eyes. Their hunched posture. Their clawed and crooked front arms. And oooh, how lithe they must be to crawl out of such a thin casing without destroying it. And wow, the thought of them rising up out of themselves—soft-bodied with pale-gold wings and red eyes and black bands on top of their heads—and wafting on the breeze like miniature German flags.)

But I also felt sad about moving so far away from them, both in terms of distance and, increasingly, time. As more time passes, I will forget about cicadas (and all the other details of my old Midwestern life), recalling them less often and with less specificity than I do now. One day, I will hear hail that sounds just like those ugly little racket-makers, and I won’t even make the connection.

But that’s what we do, right? Move forward. It’s the only choice we have.

So, with every step I took toward what is now my home, I exhaled. The tiny droplets of water and ice I breathed out into the cold night hung under the arc of my umbrella until I stepped forward, leaving even my last breath behind.

El Camero

I don’t remember a time in my life when I could look at an El Camero and not immediately think of my father.

I have the hands of a 77-year-old man. That is to say, I have my father’s hands—the ones I imagine he would have if he were still alive. It’s like they started aging at a rapid pace the day he died so I would always carry part of him with me.

If you write as if you are a writer, you’re self-conscious. If you write as if you aren’t one, you’re disingenuous.

These trees are missing their arms.

And that was the moment the thought-ghost spirited away all my good ideas.

I want what I want, and I will hold my breath until I get it.

On Rain

It’s been raining so long I can’t see the rain. When I look out my window, I only see dull sky, sometimes hope of sun.

Truth be told, I don’t like the rain right now. It’s messing with my dreams—has brought my mother back from the dead three nights straight. She’s like her old self, only kind and apologetic. The two things I wanted from her when she was alive.

When my father died, it rained and rained and rained, five days in a row without letting up, or at least that’s how I remember it. It was atypical weather for Oklahoma, not at all like the water rationing that forced my father to put in a well so he could water the lawn or wash his car whenever he damn near pleased, not just for a fixed amount of time on alternate days.

My mother couldn’t stop crying in the days following the funeral. She wailed to him in her bedroom, on her knees. She begged him to tell her why he’d left her. And she moaned about the rain. She didn’t want rain falling on his grave. I think she imagined the new soil being washed away, imagined him unable to settle into the earth. I’m not sure exactly what she imagined.

Doesn’t all the rain bother you, she asked me.

No, I answered.

He was dead. How could I be bothered by the weather?

For years, I blamed my mother for the nightmare I had a week or so after my father died. I was at the cemetery. It was raining, deep mud everywhere. My father rose from the mud that covered his plot and began walking toward me. He had no skin. There was nothing holding his bones together, so they wobbled back and forth with every step. Almost like dancing.

There has been good rain, too. My first all-out thunderstorm in Kansas City, rain carried by wind nearly parallel to the ground, drenching my giggling friends and me and sending our inside-out umbrellas to the air. Jon and I, soaked, running through an Iowa cornfield after having sex. Swimming in the rain before I knew it wasn’t safe to swim in the rain.

At least six more months of rain here in Seattle. And days as short as a memory or a dream.

Will all this rain bother me?